Finding yourself after lost love


Sometimes when a relationship ends the hardest part is the other person takes your self identity with them and your left with a gaping hole where you used to be.
We has become I and that I has no direction or ties. So what happens now?
The first thing to realise is you can never go back. Too many people try to recapture the person they were before the relationship. That is just an impossible dream. All the experiences during the relationship have changed you, as has the trauma of the breakup. Together they have moulded you in to someone new.
It’s time to embrace that new you. Treat yourself like you would a potential friend. Find out about your likes and dislikes. Take the time to explore your own ideas and interests. Most importantly learn to enjoy your own company.
Don’t be afraid to continue doing things that you had enjoyed as a couple. Just because you are not with your partner doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the places you used to go or the interests you shared.
Take a breath. Be brave. You are about to embark on the greatest love affair of your life, with the one person who will never leave you or let you down. Yourself!!


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